About Kevin
I spent a long time getting ready to do the thing I actually wanted to do.
I read the books. I made the plans. I bought the journals, filled out the first three pages, and left the rest blank. I told myself I was preparing. Most of it was hiding. Hiding behind the idea of the journey instead of walking it.
The Findings on a Journey Inward series came out of the years when I stopped hiding. Five books, each one about a different emotional territory: guilt in Guilt & Blame, fear in Fear & Anxiety, grief in Grief & Loss, desire in Desire & Wanting, and anger and pride in the capstone, Anger & Pride. Each book follows the same three movements: Release, Choose, Realize. Each one stands alone. Together, they trace the full arc of looking inward, honestly, and discovering that the person underneath all the carrying was already whole.
The Journey Is Always Today is a different kind of book. It is not about looking inward. It is about looking forward. It is for the person who has done some of the inner work (or all of it, or none of it) and is asking: now what do I build? It is the bridge between knowing yourself and building a life that reflects what you know. One day at a time. One small action at a time.
I also created The Sunrise Journal and The Night Owl Journal, companion guided journals for morning and evening. A few minutes of structured reflection at the start and end of each day. Same principles as the books, different format. A place to write it down until the writing becomes the practice.
I should tell you what I am not. I am not a therapist. I am not an academic. I do not have letters after my name or a clinical practice or a TED talk. What I have is the experience of doing the work myself, imperfectly, over years, and writing about it as honestly as I can. The books are not written from a mountaintop. They are written from the middle of the climb. I still forget to be present. I still catch the old patterns running. The difference is that now I catch them.
I live with my family. I write from the same desk most mornings. I believe that the journey is always today, and that showing up for the small moments is the whole practice.
If any of that sounds like your kind of conversation, you are in the right place.
Welcome to findingwithkevin.com.